Every time I experience these tests of my principles, it makes me question why I do what I do. After all, my friends didn't seem as concerned. They gleefully order dessert after a large meal or shop the booths for random paraphernalia. Sticking to my allowance meant that I gave up going to an event at the con that cost extra, so I had enough allowance left over to enjoy eating out with my friends (foregoing the PB&J I'd have to bring otherwise).
Don't get me wrong: making tiny sacrifices to stay within budget gives you a delicious sense of righteousness. Can't help it. It just does. But at the same time, I saw the look in my friends' eyes. You know that look. It's the look they give me every time I say, "Oh, can't go to that, I don't have enough money." It's the why are you doing this? look. There's also the politics of money. I have a full-time job, no school loans, and am nearly a mortgage-free ($10,000 to go!) owner of a house. So when I make decisions to stick to my budgeted allowance, I get that look. Don't you talk about not having money. Why are you doing this?
So after the con, I went home and said to Thomas, "Remind me again. Why are we doing this?"
I wanted to know if I was the extreme one, the dumb one. The one making arbitrary sacrifices. Were they right? Are we wrong?
He replied, "Sticking to our budget gives us the freedom to choose between retirement and work. We can choose to be debt-free."
Now I'm not a fan of retirement for middle-class, white collar workers such as myself. Moving onto to new and better things when money doesn't become an issue is one thing, but the goal should not be absence of purposeful work. But debt-free? That's my dream right there. That's why I do what I do.
I want to be beholden to no one, free from being trapped. Frugal living will not only help us pay for life's big expenses without borrowing, but it enables us to need less to be happy.
Don't get me wrong: making tiny sacrifices to stay within budget gives you a delicious sense of righteousness. Can't help it. It just does. But at the same time, I saw the look in my friends' eyes. You know that look. It's the look they give me every time I say, "Oh, can't go to that, I don't have enough money." It's the why are you doing this? look. There's also the politics of money. I have a full-time job, no school loans, and am nearly a mortgage-free ($10,000 to go!) owner of a house. So when I make decisions to stick to my budgeted allowance, I get that look. Don't you talk about not having money. Why are you doing this?
So after the con, I went home and said to Thomas, "Remind me again. Why are we doing this?"
I wanted to know if I was the extreme one, the dumb one. The one making arbitrary sacrifices. Were they right? Are we wrong?
He replied, "Sticking to our budget gives us the freedom to choose between retirement and work. We can choose to be debt-free."
Now I'm not a fan of retirement for middle-class, white collar workers such as myself. Moving onto to new and better things when money doesn't become an issue is one thing, but the goal should not be absence of purposeful work. But debt-free? That's my dream right there. That's why I do what I do.
I want to be beholden to no one, free from being trapped. Frugal living will not only help us pay for life's big expenses without borrowing, but it enables us to need less to be happy.
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